Rules about dating
After all, while it’s imperative that you don’t settle, it’s equally imperative that you give someone else a chance—just as you’d hope others would do for you in return.An additional rule when it comes to dating is to keep yourself out of harm’s way.And in light of many of today’s dating apps and sites where you’re potentially meeting a stranger, it’s never been more important to remain vigilant and put your safety and well-being first. Technology and new ideas about sex and gender have dramatically changed the laws of love, from who pays for dinner to how long to wait to call after a date.Along these lines, another essential dating rule is to keep an open mind when it comes to meeting new people.
"Whether it's the 'two-day rule' or the 'one-week rule', that formula is guaranteed to backfire," she said. If you want to know where your relationship is going, don't wait around for the other person to say something.
Start seeing technology as a useful tool to get to know guys better. Before you know it, your convos will be getting offline."Instead of trying to micromanage your love life, create open spots for men, planned or unplanned, to fill," Massa says. Until you do, a guy may not even realize you're into him.
When you hear a song you think a guy would like, send it to him on Spotify. Next time you're buying concert tickets for a band you love, buy two—and don't immediately decide who gets to be your plus-one. The key is getting the guy out of a familiar context. That's what happened to one guy Massa interviewed who met his now-fiancé on a volleyball team.
Instead of saying that you like sunsets, mention the best sunset you’ve ever seen.
Say which music you like, and your favourite place to see your friends.